Monday, July 29, 2013

July 29,2013

I'm really down today as my daughter told me yesterday the she and her husband are going to be getting a divorce. They almost did about a year or so ago. She even filed papers and then they worked it out through counseling and gave it a try but deep down I guess I knew it would never work out, that things would never change between them, but I could always hope. But I guess it's just not going to work out. I feel for all of them expecially for the 3 kids. The oldest is leaving next Tuesday to go to College and the other two, are 15 and 13. One a sophmore and the other one is the eighth grade. I think they saw it comming and weren't to surprised when they were told. It's still going to be hard on them. It's going to be a long time in the making or a long drawn out process so I'm not sure what to expect. Time will tell. I dread this process. I haven't been feeling the best in the world to start with and I'm sure the stress from this isn't going to help my MS. My legs are already wobbly and I've been trying to walk as much as I can to get some strength into them and I will keep trying to do that. I didn't feel like going out to dinner tonight with our policeman friends, but Terry said we should go anyway to get out of the house and I guess he's right. If we stay home we will just sit around and mope and think about it so I guess we will go anyway and share our bad mood with them. Won't that be nice of us. lol

1 comment:

Unknown said...

I really feel for you about your daughter and maybe a divorce in the future. I know how awful it was when my oldest got his divorce. Both of his children went through a period where they acted out and he had a lot of problems with them until they got a bit older and were able to understand the change in their lives. Try to keep yourself calm because stress with MS can be a real problem. It was wonderful talking and maybe we can do it more often. I will call you next time!